In reply to Scarab9:
> However a lot of people hold an emotional attachment to the physical parts of their loved ones.
Which should be completely respected, even if you don't share the same view. If the relatives were told one thing when another was actually done, that really is just not cricket. I am not fan of any of the wars we are currently waging, but let us not forget that at the human level we are talking about kids as young as 18 and 19 that are being killed here. The thought of my son dying so early fills me with horror and for the organisation that has a responsibility towards these boys to screw the whole process up is totally unforgivable.