In reply to thin bob:
> (In reply to iksander)
> it's not fair, unless it's in reparation for not hoovering etc.
>
> make everyone happy, buy a dishwasher!
Ah, I tried that,
I knocked through some old out houses, re roofed it, re-wired,re- plumbed, put in her favourite range cooker, installed built in fridge, freezer and of course a dishwasher, and guess what, she nags me that I don't put my dishes IN the dishwasher.
He should Just accept that he will never make her happy, and don't do the dishes.