In reply to Dave Reeve:
Although it can be helpful, a lot of the time, for me, the joy in a route is the reading of it and working it out. I have met the odd "full beta breakdown" guy at the wall and crag and have been slightly irritated, especially if they haven't asked if I'm looking to get an onsight first. If hanging out in the bouldering room I am usually chatting with people and working through problems together so doesn't bother me too much.
With the "full beta breakdown" guys, I either politely stop them if going for an onsight or listen and say "thank you I will consider those points" but usually end up climbing differently anyway as I am a small female and have developed my style to fit that.
As for being patrionising, yes, sometimes it is. The other day in the boulder room a man called over "hey! Missus, have you tried that one?" As the only female i did not respond and waited for a second call then said "oh me??" He then later approached me and told me "You climb like a man, that's a good thing". I have to say I bit my tounge with that one. I now wish I hadn't.
Luckily my circle of climbing friends and the majority of the locals at the wall are not at all gender biased but I have had my fair share of morons making unwanted comments!!