In reply to Bootsy:
> EBay Inc have owned Paypal since 2002 and for the last year or so (if not longer) it has been compulsory for sellers to offer Paypal as a payment method and you can't list unless you do.
You can, however, offer other payment methods. I always insist on cash in hand if the buyer wants to collect the item in person, because it's all too easy for the buyer to claim non-delivery and get a refund from Paypal. I state that in the listing and it's never been a problem with eBay. If you only want to do a cash sale then a stupidly high postage cost will put remote buyers off very effectively.
In the OP's case I'd echo craig1983's point: if you are a new seller and/or have an unverified account they do hang on to your funds for longer in case there's a problem. I've been selling stuff on eBay for nearly nine years now, including stuff that went for three-figure sums, and I'm able to request transfer of the funds to my bank pretty much as soon as the seller has paid. These days the money turns up in the bank a/c pretty quickly, too.