In reply to Sharp:
> I'm not sure how true this is but I've heard a few people say that the expectations are different in the UK, customers want "genuine" service as opposed to happy, smiley, follow you round the shop and treat you like royalty kind of service.
> I also think there's a big difference between retail and catering, my experience is that a lot of people begrudge being "served" in shops. To the extent that often a cheery "hello, how are you?" will be met with an aggressive "I'm just looking", a sarcastic "is it ok if I just look?" or often just being blanked entirely. The British just don't like being served in shops unless it's absolutely necessary (like the sketch in Black Books - "I'm sick of being hounded by sales staff..."). Next time you're in a big department store stand by the door for a few minutes and watch the reactions that customers give the poor sod whose job it is to stand at the door and greet people as they come in. Most people ignore them. I think a lot of people don't really want the kind of service that might be the norm in other countries.
> The other thing is, in the UK sales assistants and waiting staff are the bottom of the pile in terms of social standing, below cleaners, bin men, street sweepers in terms of wages and it's generally seen as a job that people do if they can't do anything else. I'm not sure what this is like in other countries but I know when I've worked with French people in the catering industry it's been their profession and they've been proud of being good at their job. Working in a good restaurant is hard, long stressful hours, a mental mind f*ck remembering what table got their food when etc. and a lot is asked of you in terms of knowledge of food and wine. plus if you're not from a posh background then there's a lot of ridiculous social etiquette to learn and keep up to. Then you're paid minimum wage, expected to work in poor conditions, expected to work evenings/holidays/christmas etc., talked down to by the chefs and the customers and often have zero job security.
> The service industry is full of people who don't want to be there because it doesn't offer anyone anything other than poor working conditions, low wages and a deep desire to get the f*ck out before you end up like the withered managers above you. Combine that with the cultural element of where service staff are placed on the social scale, the lack of job security and the volume of wankers that they've served before you walk in and it's no wonder that service is often hit and miss.
pretty much as stated
1/ we're more cyncial / less naive. We want good service but we know a lot of 'good' service is just really an attempt to sell us something and so don't trust it, don't want it, and can react pretty badly to it (ie. not the happy, smiley stuff - in the US a lot of customer service workers would thank you for spitting in their face rather than break the act).
2/ there are very few career barman / waiters / shop assistants in the UK where there are more so in many other countries (those that are known for 'good' customer service).
I've been all 3 in the past, and would love to be a career barman or run a bar, but there's no way to work up in it. You get paid minimum wage, get very few tips compared to other countries, get paid until 'time' or half hour after but often end up working an extra hour clearing up. You get treated badly a lot of the time. It's considerably harder to make money even running a pub, and so not only is that eventual hope removed but the landlords tend to do less for the staff (lockins, drink at the end of the night, stuff that used t be more common place.
As an assistant manager you tend to work still on minimum wage but getting paid for 40 hrs while working closer to 80, with absolutely no guarantee the brewery will actually ever find you a manager's place.
There's a few good big chains (mainly wetherspoons) which have good training systems now and you can rise up the ranks and get rewarded, but as they're cheap and cheerful pubs you might get the rewards for working hard, but it comes with more grief from the customers (Wetherspoon's customers being the worst I've ever seen for complaining, being rude, being frankly despicable).