In reply to Submit to Gravity:
.... if I thought someone had broken into our house the first thing I would do is establish where my wife and daughter were, and that they were safe.
Spot on, you would wake them up, tell them to be careful,hide in a wardrobe, or under the bed, up the loft or whatever , and be in a position to phone the police.
But not leave them sleeping to possibly be unaware , awoken by commotion, and blunder into danger.
It has happened to me a couple of times, I heard 'something' , woke my wife and went downstairs to investigate . Both occasions turned out to be false alarms, but if it had not been, my wife would at least have been aware of the situation and could have called for help, and taken steps to protect herself .
His actions just don't add up for me, particularly in SA, where they are more security minded, they must have plans for such eventualities. Leaving your loved one sleeping can't be a sensible plan.