In reply to Offwidth:
I know, but I'm not sure there'll ever be a 'good' time for an op. I was approved for an operation 20 years ago, so that's quite a long wait
The toe is getting gradually worse, and while previously it never caused pain, now I do get pain and swelling. Plus it looks hideous, and vanity is getting the better of me. I'd rather have a scar.
I might have some option of working from home/lift sharing, so I can hopefully minimise lost earnings.
I do realise all operations have a risk, but the surgeon was of the opinion that most are due to people ignoring the post-op guidelines (not staying off feet being the main one). My googling did turn up the odd bad story, but most seemed to involve structural complications in addition to a bunion.
Anyway, I have a follow-up consult in September and am 80% sure that I'll go through with it.