In reply to graeme jackson:
> Have you seen 'Taken'? This will only end well if you are Liam Neeson.
Good one.Yet what did Neeson ever do on grit?
In answer to everyone else:-
It is interesting that there are people who see the situation as no real concern, and others who can see my queries about the circumstances.
There are no other friends or relations in 200 miles of Paris,let alone Paris itself to act as a bolt hole in a crisis,and no-one to discuss problems with should they arise.Yes Skype and the internet will help.
The other problem is(I reiterate)the child himself who could be a real problem.Who has not had problems with a person of this age?Then add the mix of people who may well have cared for him.So sufficient time off has to be part of the deal.
The sad thing is that another position just in France,but only a short step from Geneva fell through.That would have been much more of interest for me(
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I just see it that she could get a position with a couple with children where more balance would be more likely.
To those who say make time for your daughter.I say to you, you do not know how much time I have spent for her with her previous problem.Getting time off is difficult.(For instance I am going to be working from this Friday morning through to Tuesday morning and there is no-one to replace me in that slot.) I have said to her prior to reading all the recent replies that I may go over there with her,but it may have to be setting off late on Wednesday night and returning on Thursday night.That is going to be difficult to organise as I do not have the time to spend on the planning-getting car insurance and road cover.(Today I got my lunch at 4.30pm and I arrived home at 8.15pm)
Part of me says let my daughter's mother go on the road trip,but I do not think that it would be that successful in ascertaining the worth and safety of the job.
As regards my daughter herself,she is independent in that she has lived 50% at each parent's home for twelve years plus and much of that time after the age of (I seem to remember)14 was being on her own.(She likes being on her own).She cooks,she cleans,has a good ability with computer matters and the internet(sub net mask and all that stuff).She is much more adult than most of her compatriots at university in her year and was looked up to by many of them in her first year.Yet at the end of all that an older stronger man in his own home holds all the trump cards in his native land.
Unfortunately my passport runs out on the 14th of August and next Thursday I was hoping to get a fast track passport appointment,but now that may be the day that I am in France...
Also daughter's I-phone was stolen on a bus in Spain when she was teaching young Spaniards to talk English.At the time her 'phone was in her pocket and she was asleep.Sadly she had chosen very poor insurance and the theft was not covered..That was a couple of weeks ago.
So many interlinking matters to resolve.
Anyway,thank you all for your input.
Rob