In reply to Bloodfire:
Personally I think it unfair if anyone expects to continue to climb just as much once they get into a relationship as they did beforehand... if your new partner is a non-climber.
Last year I was single, climbed indoors 2-3 times a week and outdoors every weekend the weather permitted, rock, ice alpine, whatever. Got loads done, it was a great year for my climbing, I loved it.
This year I've been in a serious relationship, I still climb indoors but only once a week, and I've only climbed outdoors a handful of times all year. As a result, when I do climb outdoors I cannot climb to the level I could last year (last year I was onsighting HVS, this year I've tried two HVS and failed on both!)
While I miss being able to do what I want when I want without compromise, its just not realistic or fair to expect someone else to fit around your life without making compromises yourself. Also, committing more to the relationship, i.e. accepting you won't be climbing as much, and looking for opportunities to do things together rather than separately, makes for a much healthier and fulfilling relationship. After all, the whole point of a relationship is that you both *want* to be together.
It took me a while to figure this out and it until I did it lead to resentment on both sides - from me because I felt she was the reason I couldn't go climbing, and her because she felt she was playing second fiddle to climbing. We both felt each others resentment. Once I realised my mistake and grew up/got over it, our relationship has been 100% better, and life overall is far better now than it was last year when I was living only for myself and climbing all the time (even though I loved that)!
I still get to climb occasionally outdoors but don't even consider it unless my girlfriend has something lined up as well. I just would not go away - even for a day trip - unless she had plans anyway.
My girlfriend and I do live together - this stuff is probably less relevant to those who don't live together/aren't married/don't have kids and are generally just in a fairly casual arrangement!