In reply to Cerris90:
> And as for cohabitation stuff but not married. Under law you are classed as single. I'm not married but live with my missis yet on all forms concerning work I have to put single.
Law is one thing, but in terms of mental stability, surely living in the same house with someone who is still your life partner, albeit not a legally married one, will greatly impact your mental well being? If anything I'd say it was one of the most critical factors?
Plus, living with someone who you are not contractually connected to potentially offers greater stability and value, as you are there through pure choice, 100% of time, not because you simply don't want to break some administrative, religious or legal bond. So you are probably more likely to share your highs and lows, plus have a more stable home life.
Given the huge number of people who live together, but don't have a legal bond, the survey is missing something. This might be because your American 'Expert', lives in a happy clapper state, has church funding or is a happy clapper where the concept of unmarried cohabitation can't be considered or even mentioned? I live in Sweden now and I estimate that 50% of the families we know are unmarried in any format, they have however shared a house with their kids for a decade plus, are they still single? Imagine after receiving church funding he did a survey and found co-habiting couples were more mentally stable than married.
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=professor+jim+o%27neill+church
You might also wish to research what is called common law marriage, here it's called sambo, which is a shortened translated version of Same Abode. You can get legally binding sambo contracts, which tie together people's financial interests fairly, without any kind of legal marriage.
Post edited at 05:48