In reply to Escher:
> I did have a lamb sandwich with leftover roast last night but I still dream intensely even when I haven't eaten anything in the evening. I am very intolerant of caffeine so only have one caffeined tea first thing then decaf the rest of the day.
Have more caffeine
> In reply to Hardonicus: Ha! No, I don't think thats the problem.
Are you doing it too much, more than six a day is classed as excessive.
> In reply to purplemonkeyelephant: Yeah I've thought that, but it does feel like the sleep is even heavier, it's a hard thing to explain.
> In reply to SenzuBean: No, I don't take any meds.
you should start.
> One thought is my partner is a bit of an insomniac. She will be on her iPad/Kindle in the middle of the night. I rarely wake up when she does but that might be disturbing my sleep. Also it isn't just feeling wasted the next day it is also a feeling of being emotionally drained. It's like the opposite of the dreams themselves, in that if I really enjoy myself dreaming and I often do then I have the opposite negative effect upon waking. Bit like a high followed by a low.
Get a new partner.
I'm not a professional either ( at least not one that can help with these problems ).