In reply to nick ingram:
You're being a bit hard on yourself; surely in a situation like that anybody would have been a bit freaked out. And ironically the second problem only occurred because of being 'too safe' (usually a good option!)
But, if it makes you feel better...
Once totally buggered up the ab into Red Wall. Somebody's very old thick, furry ropes knotted together and something left on (a jumar?) to get past the knot. Very high winds. Being a mechanical numpty, I just couldn't seem to get past the knot. Messed around for ages. My mate, far below, was cursing me. Probably got a bit hypothermic in the wind. Eventually swung in (the ab was free) and grabbed a big loose jug seemingly not on any route. Hung from one hand, untied (yup!) with the other. Wind trying to tear the rope away. (I knew if I lost it, all was well and truly over.) Messed around one-handed, to get the rope back into the figure of eight. Tried not to think about loose jugs creaking. Finally swung off into space and down to my thoroughly disgusted mate.
After that, of course, the route might have been a Diff at Windgather. My mate bailed on the second pitch. I flew up all three, in a rush to get out. Haven't been back since.
Mick