In reply to Jimbo W:
> I wouldn't have changed these experiences for the world, but looking back you can see why sprogs on trips might be an issue these days, but we were going from when we were babies and it couldn't have been more supportive of my parents keeping climbing.
That's a fantastically compelling account Jimbo. 'These days' sprogs are 'an issue generally' and in all sorts of ways, due to the hysterical reactions towards keeping them away from the real world. This has all kinds of bad consequences, and I'll give you a couple more examples:
First, one related to climbing: an old friend of mine has two boys aged 10 and 11, and I've taken him and his sons out to crags a couple of times so far this year. On each occasion, my friend has gone through a constant near nervous-breakdown whenever either of his boys went near the edge of a path, leant on the handrail of a bridge, stood on a rock, etc. etc. The boys themselves loved it because they spend almost their entire lives indoors, in cars or on carefully H&S managed school sports premises and getting outdoors was a whole wonderful new experience for them. To cap it all, after the last such outing earlier this month, when we got back to my friends' holiday house in France where we were all staying , my friend really laid into his sons for being 'pussies' when they were too scared to go into some undergrowth to retrieve a lost football. This was the same day that he himself had been giving them a really powerful lesson into how scary the outdoors was (through his own paranoid reactions) and how all risks associated with it should be avoided at all costs. I really felt like saying something, but I bit my tongue.
Another example comes from an article about a different but related hysteria that is sweeping American college campuses right now. Though not directly linked to climbing, it's good to read because it gives some insight into the underlying causes behind all this. Here it is:
"Something strange is happening at America’s colleges and universities. A movement is arising, undirected and driven largely by students, to scrub campuses clean of words, ideas, and subjects that might cause discomfort or give offense. Last December, Jeannie Suk wrote in an online article for The New Yorker about law students asking her fellow professors at Harvard not to teach rape law—or, in one case, even use the word violate (as in “that violates the law”) lest it cause students distress. In February, Laura Kipnis, a professor at Northwestern University, wrote an essay in The Chronicle of Higher Education describing a new campus politics of sexual paranoia—and was then subjected to a long investigation after students who were offended by the article and by a tweet she’d sent filed Title IX complaints against her. In June, a professor protecting himself with a pseudonym wrote an essay for Vox describing how gingerly he now has to teach. “I’m a Liberal Professor, and My Liberal Students Terrify Me,” the headline said. A number of popular comedians, including Chris Rock, have stopped performing on college campuses (see Caitlin Flanagan’s article in this month’s issue). Jerry Seinfeld and Bill Maher have publicly condemned the oversensitivity of college students, saying too many of them can’t take a joke.
Two terms have risen quickly from obscurity into common campus parlance. Microaggressions are small actions or word choices that seem on their face to have no malicious intent but that are thought of as a kind of violence nonetheless. For example, by some campus guidelines, it is a microaggression to ask an Asian American or Latino American “Where were you born?,” because this implies that he or she is not a real American. Trigger warnings are alerts that professors are expected to issue if something in a course might cause a strong emotional response. For example, some students have called for warnings that Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart describes racial violence and that F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby portrays misogyny and physical abuse, so that students who have been previously victimized by racism or domestic violence can choose to avoid these works, which they believe might “trigger” a recurrence of past trauma."
You can read the full thing here, which explains why baby-boomers in the USA (and in the UK too probably) have become wildly overprotective of their offspring. This is the other side of the coin represented by some people in the climbing world who want to keep people with children away from outdoor pursuits:
http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/09/the-coddling-of-the-ame...