In reply to Donald82:
> That second paragraph's a bit odd and clumsily worded. It doesn't 'seem' non-controversial when you see people happy. It just isn't controversial. And what Indy said. It's weird to see a happy gay couple and think thank god they're not in [country x] being correctively raped.
This is what I wrote, 'the situation in other countries where lesbians can be 'correctively raped' or shunned by their families, and the attacks on gays and lesbians which occur.'
It was a little clumsily worded, it's more an awareness of how things can be in other countries, and how fortunate we are in the UK, I didn't quite think 'Look at them being so happy, good job they're not in Africa being correctively raped'.
From having had a friend who is gay from when I was teenager, and knowing about how homophobes can mutter 'fag' or 'puff' or 'queer' in an undertone for only their target to hear in the street & things, it's just something I'm conscious off, that even in the UK things can still a challenge for anybody who isn't straight & 'normal'. It's probably not the kind of thing the average straight person would have any cause to be aware of in their everyday life, unless they've been present when it's happened or it's been talked about.
> I'm 99% certain that's why people disliked your post, and that it's absolutely nothing to do with any anti-gay feeling on UKC.
A quite joyful thread about same sex marriage in America and posts about how cool or harmless it is got quite a lot of dislikes, but who knows.
> All that said, 1st and 3rd paras are very nice.
Thank you.
Post edited at 02:02