In reply to Wsdconst:
> Hi,just a quick question,does anyone oppose this behaviour or is it just seen as normal? This is the first I've heard of this,and I feel quite disturbed to be honest.
Yes, it is very disturbing. I've felt quite sick reading some of the reports in the English language papers here. Even the press seem to make a habit of implying that the maids are somehow at fault and the perpetrators and upstanding citizens... "The family maid, who often dressed provocatively, threw herself out of the 10th floor window after alleging rape by her well-respected employer on several occasions...blah...blah."
Locals are very rarely prosecuted. Amongst some of them it is definitely considered normal. Occasionally the perpetrator may end up in court, but I suspect not much happens by way of real punishment. If it were the other way round (an expat worker doing something theyshouldn't or even just being a tad rude to their employer) then of course they'll be subjected to some sort of horrific punishment.
Occasionally, I've spoken out when I've observed people yelling at their maid or just generally treating them like dirt in public but it just creates a massive scene in which there will only be one person who really suffers.
I've been told by friends who originate from here that it hasn't always been like this and that - if anything - it's getting worse rather than better.
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