So, if you're roughly my age, 42, how do you refer to your girlfriend, to whom you are neither engaged nor married? It is hard to find a decent phrase...
Girlfriend - seems teenage, tones of no real commitment
Partner - sounds dry, no love there
Other half etc - downright offensive
Significant other - terrible corporate wankspeak
Lover - doesn't do justice to full relationship
Thoughts welcome for something that sounds good and portrays all that an adult relationship is.
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