In reply to purplemonkeyelephant:
do you honestly think being able to see through a vehicle in front doesn't help you stop in time should the vehicle 2 in front hits the brakes? Would you rather the driver behind you has a chance to anticipate something a few milliseconds earlier than not?
All I'm saying is travelling x distance behind a vehicle you can see through is safer than the same distance behind a vehicle you can't see through, and many people don't leave the space they should.
As to where do you stop, I think it's a matter of need. Clearly if you are regularly transporting bulky items around you need a van or lorry to do it and these vehicles have additional safety limits imposed on them due to the danger they pose (lower speed limits, limits on when they can enter some cities etc). Do you need a 6 seater vehicle capable of scaling 35% inclines and deep ruts to take 1 kid to school? And I agree there are all sorts of cars that are of questionable design when it comes to safety (other than passing the unrepresentative tests).
Incidentally Vehicle weight is something that is being looked at very carefully in the insurance industry... its very likely that "high" variants of vehicles and SUVs will become massively more expensive to insure due to the injuries they inflict on third parties (previously only significantly larger vehicles attracted much of a penalty - e.g. vans, lorries, pickups, some 4x4s).
Over the years vehicle design has focused on safety only of the occupants, not other road users (including occupants of other vehicles) look at the VW golf. It weighs nearly twice as much as the original, a lot of that weight (that endangers others) was added to improve safety of the occupants