In reply to violentViolet:
I live in a safe seat too, my vote currently makes no difference, and as long as everyone here votes labour as they've done for 50 years or so it'll stay that way. My vote, and your vote, have exactly the weight they ought to have, it's just that we disagree with our neighbours. But when the country changes it's view enough seats move and governments change. Democracy in the UK has radically changed the country, for the better, just since the second world war - NHS, decent housing, improved living standards, etc, etc. We voted for people that did this stuff.
Statutory instruments are created by our government based on law passed by our elected Parliament. If our Parliament don't want to give so much power to the executive they'd be wise to not vote for the law in the first place, or they could repeal the law.
In the EU we elect our governments under our differing systems and they make up the Council, which has some say. We elect MEPs, large countries like us being under represented and tiny ones way way overrepresented, and they have some say. We have the independent Commission, who have some say. The EU seem to think they're the executive, which makes them seem pretty important, and they act as if they're important, but their importance is downplayed all the time by europhiles. Then there's the treaties, which limit the decision making power of any EU government, so any major change goes back to the member states.
Who's responsible for decisions, who is at fault? How do we, even acting as european citizens, which we don't, vote for people who actually have the power to change things in the way we want? All in unison vote for governments we both agree with at local level and agree with at european level and that will agree to change the treaties in the way we want? How do we make the Commission do what we want? It's legally obliged to be independent, under law put in place only a few years ago. How is democracy in the EU supposed to function?
In the UK we elect people, they run the country. It's nice and clear, easy to see who's at fault and (relatively) hard for politicians to hide their actions . The only major problem we have with this is the EU.