In reply to jon:
Thank you very much Jon, that really means a lot to me.
It's often really difficult to convey exactly how my head injury effects me on a daily basis because most people only see me on my good days, not my recovery days or bad days. Like most people with debilitating disabilities, on the bad days we don't leave the house.
This in turn feeds the notion of "he's not THAT disabled, he looks OK to me", because they see only the fully recovered, ready to face the world times. Not the shelter in a dark room at home for 3 days side.
There are a lot of people out there with hidden disabilities and many with very good coping strategies such as myself. But people still need to know that they are just that, coping strategies, and they only last a short time. The disabilities are still very much prominent and significant.
This can apply to people with Stroke, MS, ME, Autism, Deafness, many many different neurological disorders and injuries, the list goes on with invisible disabilities.
The more the disabled person has to concentrate on on their coping strategy, the more it fatigues them & depending on what symptoms they have, can result in a nasty and sudden fallout.