In reply to damhan-allaidh:
> Fortunately, I am grateful for having some work to do on a Friday afternoon.
Shouldn't you be doing it then?
I can see how gratitude is that "bridge" that connects us. I certainly feel that warm glow inside when someone thanks me for something I've done. The most recent example was at the wedding of my late brother's daughter where I was asked to "fill his boots" (fortunately, not the bill though!). It was not only the gratitude of my niece and her husband that touched me, but also that of many of the guests who, though they didn't know me, made the effort to personally thank me for my words. It was one of the most joyous parts of the day for me and I certainly felt a connection with everyone there.
I sometimes think there is not enough people being proactively good to each other. This extends further than just being a show of gratitude and includes respect and courtesy, forgiveness and apology, sympathy and empathy. I also think this is a fundamental flaw in our psyche and may herald back to a time when we were "more savage", though sometimes I feel our savagery is increasing.
I know I am not perfect, but who is and indeed, who wants to be? But recently, I have been trying to make more of a conscious effort to be more empathetic and have found that it has made me a better and happier person, though this may be due to the fluoxitine I taking at the moment!
There is a poster on here, that I won't embarrass by naming, with whom I have had some "run ins" with in the past. I think we both stepped back and thought about things a bit and I would say we have now developed some kind of friendship (as far as that can go online) through a mutual respect and empathy, that at one stage I would not have thought possible.
Thanks for your post and I hope your work isn't too onerous.