In reply to bird:
That's because I think there is a bit of a misconception about women. Even a shop which only sells DB and WC still has 10 types on offer for the blokes and 2 for the girls.
Was very upset when I needed to get a new harness recently (British Midland ate my last one into about 30 pieces) and shoes (they were eaten to the point that there was in total one whole shoe left, albeit in several pieces and made up out of what were once two shoes) and all that Tyso's had that would even go down to my size, let alone fit, was a pair of Scarpas - in pink - and a harness called, yes, a "Primrose". Yess. And just how many of the blokes harnesses to they name after flowers?
I'd agree about the Primrose though. Although it is still pretty new, it isnt really showing much sign of getting at all flexible.
My first harness (also trashed) was a very small Metolius and that was great. It can only have been a ladies because small mens' would still be far too big for me.