I bought a ~£100 item on eBay last weekend. When it arrived part of it was was cracked and broken. I requested a return via eBay the same day, stating the reason as "damaged in transit" and provided some photos in evidence of the damage. eBay acknowledged my return request but I've yet to hear from the seller. I've checked the seller's activity and they've listed a fair few items in the last few days, so it doesn't look as if they're on holiday or anything like that.
eBay have said that if I haven't heard from the seller by the 27th I can ask them to intervene. If I do that, and the seller doesn't respond to them either, then I suspect that eBay will just refund me anyway. If that happens, what am I supposed to do with the damaged item? If I send it back to the seller at that point I'll be out of pocket the cost of return postage. But if I've been refunded the purchase price then surely the item doesn't belong to me so I can't keep it. I can't recall ever having to return an eBay purchase for this reason before, so I'm unsure of how it is all supposed to work.
Would it be appropriate, once the eBay/PayPal process has completed, to send a registered letter to the seller stating that if they don't contact me within x days of receipt of the letter to arrange return of the item at their cost then I shall consider them to have renounced any claim to it and will treat it as my own property to dispose of as I choose? And if so, what might be an appropriate value for x?
(I feel a bit bad for the seller because the item was packed pretty well - he'd even put some extra foam inside the manufacturer's packaging. But it clearly wasn't enough to save it when Royal Mail dropped it - though there's no obvious sign of a serious impact on the outer packaging so I assume they must have dropped it square on its end, and the item slid inside the box and whacked itself hard enough on the interior of the packaging to cause the breakage.)
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