In reply to ollie1:
I will be honest, I have been less than happy with ortho in the UK. In 2009 I had a wrist injury where I actively heard and felt something loudly snap and my half my fingers went numb as the ulnar nerve was hit. I got it seen by a GP at the time, who did not refer me further. It took a couple of years for that wrist to feel strong enough not to cause problems with climbing, and it will randomly swell up and start hurting if I push heavy stuff, catch the back of it on something as I'm walking around, use screwdrivers etc. I had it seen by two more GPs, one of whom referred me to a consultant ortho surgeon.
Said consultant appeared actively annoyed that I was even there, and refused to even physically touch my hand to examine it, dismissing it as "I'd have to go in there and have a look and I don't want to do that". No scans, nothing.
After that, I had it seen by two physios, one of whom gave me some exercises that made things permanently worse, I can no longer do press-ups without the wrist hurting for days afterwards.
Last month, I was in Greece taking care of my parents who both had ortho surgery for different ailments. Their surgeon (same person for both) came over to check on their recovery and out of sheer curiosity I asked him about it. He walked over, grabbed my wrist, poked it in a few different directions, and then said "you've partially raptured your TFCC" and proceeded to literally tell me the symptoms I've been having for the past 14 years one by one. It took him 15 seconds, and he explained that the type of instability it has is only caused by that.
I don't know what to say or do at this stage, this wrist has progressively been getting worse and is not going to get better on its own, there is little to no chance I could ever get the NHS to do anything about it, and I cannot really afford to get it done privately.