In reply to itaa:
I live in Hastings and I like it
Population 81,000
Pluses
Arguably the one of the best climates in Britain
Loads of character and history (1066 Country), both in the town and surrounding countryside.
Quaint Old Town area with a fishing fleet, approximately 3 miles of promenade, ample selection of shops and supermarkets, and fresh fish. Vibrant music scene from classical concerts to folk to jazz/rock and blues. much of it outdoors in the summer. Lots of pubs, several theatres, a pier, lots of town parks and open spaces.
You mention the Sea not being a priority. Living here I often walk down to the front and in particular the old town, but most of my recreation is spent inland where the walking is excellent - see below.
Property prices are some of the lowest in the South East.
Friendly people and clubs to suit most tastes and interests.
Easy access to beautiful countryside including the Downs and other hills, farmland and the Weald*. Big choice of country footpaths and cycle rides in lanes - can be very hilly.
London (Charing Cross) 1hr 20 mins by fast train or 1hr 50 mins on slower trains. Easy access to Eastbourne, Brighton, Tunbrdge Wells and Dover - ferries and Tunnel to Europe.
Minuses
Difficult to quickly access other parts of the UK because London is such a barrier to get around by car (via M25) or train, and the coast road to the West Country can get busy.
A bit of a haul to get away for climbing anywhere apart from Southern Sandstone ( which is about 45 mins to 1 hours drive. The next nearest climbing is Swanage and Portland, or Wye Valley - all about 3 to 4 hours drive. The Peak is about 4 hours, N Wales about 5 to 6 hours and the Lakes about 7 hours. But Font is easy!
The roads are not the best, and it can take a while driving around. The A21 main road to London is gradually improving and being dualled, but it's still not the best choice to go up to London. Train is generally quicker - particularly the fast trains.
Feel free to pick my brains if you want to know anything else.
* The Weald is often overlooked by people who don't know it because it is heavily wooded, but beautiful and surprisingly hilly. Some areas can get quite remote.
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