In reply to Jonny2vests:
Apologies if I have come into this thread a little late, I have been reading about Savvas and quietly, like others been rooting for him to get out and enjoy some of the wonderful benefits climbing outdoors can bring.
I'm sorry to hear things have not worked out for him and in all effect have turned a bit sour from reliability issues, which will obviously irk for you guys who have been so kind to offer a day out with help and guidance for him out on the crag.
Not wishing to stick my oar in, but I have worked with people with dyspraxia whist doing my BSc Psychology training years ago and also in my work in the NHS and thought it may help if I shared some of my experiences to get a bit of balance. Feel free to stop reading if you so wish now, and Savvas please do not take anything personally in this.
One of the main area I discovered and worked on with people with dispraxia was where they were extremely willing to listen and seemingly very keen with ideas, but ultimately did not understand the brevity of what was being put on offer to them.
Almost, as some people have alluded, a fantasy like situation, where every things sounds great & wonderful, but ultimately it isn't a reality. This is common and it's basically thought to be a problem with the two hemispheres (H) in the brain not coordinating with each other.
One H maybe thinks: Great - Climbing - Burbage - beautiful - lets go!
Yet the other H doesn't follow this thought through, it doesn't quite get the message and doesn't like adapting to a situation which may be new or unpredictable. So it puts the kibosh on it with a justification or two, its; too hot, too cold, too early, too late etc.
The ideology in the other H however, remains and doesn't give up easily, it really does want to go climbing. Frustrating!
This can often lead to avoidance behavior, especially with situations that have the potential to be difficult, demanding and outside of every day
normality.
I suppose it can seem like an 'all the gear no idea' situation, which it literally can be. It's almost like when you tell some one to do something and they go and do the opposite, despite all you have said and thought they have understood at the time, but with a more severe underlying issue about 'the understanding' part.
The work I have done with people with dyspraxia, was to try to get the both sides of the brain to have a mutual understanding with each other, very slowly at first, initially introducing an idea & goal setting - then working on strategies and coping mechanisms to see them through the practical stages. Almost breaking through the 'negative' thoughts with some blind faith (and with much friction) to achieve the goals set.
Almost trying to fool the H that is trying to spoil the party by shutting out the negative chatter, with cognitive behavioral techniques to help with the distorted patterns of thinking. It's a hard fought battle and we all have them in some form or other every day. Head games, as we climbers call them, needing that little bit of faith in the friction to move forward.
I'm not decrying anyone who has posted on this thread and offerd help, it is commendable, but it seems for this chap, a qualified instructor, experienced in working with people with disabilities would be able to take into account Savvas's many challenges before he even stepped onto rock.
Again sorry if I have stuck my nose in where not wanted, however I wish Savvas all the best in his endeavors to get climbing outdoors, hopefully in the right environment and conditions for him whenever he is ready.
cheers all
Si