The only way to do what I think you want is electronically - Satmap loaded with OS maps for example. Probably about £400 or thereabouts I'd guess. Best book with routes? Butterfield's High Mountains as referenced above, then the SMC Munros book. McNeish's book will probably cost you under a tenner a few nice pictures but otherwise so-so, he insults the intelligence by telling them not to be like sheep and go up the same routes while, yes detailing those very routes. There are loads of books available, some of them area specific - I think the series linked here
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ultimate-Guide-Munros-Southern-Highlands/dp/1906307... are quite good having lots of info, maps etc with the benefit of being up to date. Once you get the hang of an area you can leave the map at the side of the PC and on reaching the car park realise this
(the day went well, a bit more relaxed without pulling out the map to see what height the summit was, how far was I, how far was the next Munro etc, although I can't recommend this approach, can I?)