In reply to Removed User:
Here to send encouragement!
I think it's very typical to see other people (including 7 or 10 year-olds) going up hard-as-nails routes and making them look easy and to feel despondent, but it's also possible to change the way you feel about it: think of what they're doing as something to celebrate. It's a nice way of being involved in the community, and other people will celebrate your achievements as well – the first time you top a problem, your first flash, your first f6a – even if those are things they've not managed to do yet or they've done a long time ago. It makes the whole experience more enjoyable, and keeps you involved and motivated even if you're getting frustrated by your (current) limits.
As lots of people have said above, trust the programme, and remember:
• climbing gets you fit for climbing
• everyone grips too much when they first start, it burns your arms out, and on top of that everyone relies too much on their hands/arms instead of feet/legs and engaging core muscles
• rest between attempts and remember your body will be working out how to hold the positions while you're on the mat between the times you're climbing
• watch other people, all types of people and not just the super dynamic and strong-looking climbers. People in climbing walls are used to being watched and to watching each other. Even if you don't fully grasp how to translate what you're seeing into movements that you can make with your own body, at the very least you're getting used to seeing the way that other people pace themselves, rest, breathe, rush, panic, pump out, fall. It's all helpful for learning.
• if a way of tackling a problem isn't working, try out a different way of doing it, try to see how other people do it (the nice thing about working on a problem at the same time as someone else is that as you take it in turns, it forces you to take a rest).
• everyone gets frustrated and wishes that they had just that bit extra strength / fitness / suppleness / stamina / quick-mindedness / fearlessness (except perhaps the 7 or 10 year-olds – they've got stacks of everything)
I notice that some new climbers find the first time they go to an indoor centre they fly up loads of things, and see a very quick progression to the next grade, but then level out on their second visit (or even just after a short rest on their first visit). The initial curve of progress seemed like it was going steeply upwards, but it always flattens off pretty quickly because they've mostly been relying on brute strength to pull themselves up things, and so any problem which requires a bit of technique (balance, delicate foot-placement) is instantly a block. They get very frustrated, perhaps more frustrated than you're feeling now, precisely because they thought they'd discovered in themselves some untapped secret ability. There are other people who don't see any such progress on their first visit, but who notice that the second time they go things are clicking together much better – they're more likely to notice the kinds of subtle breakthroughs and progress because they didn't (or couldn't) just thug past all the learning opportunities.
Speaking for my own practice: I know, for an absolute fact, 100% guaranteed, that if I haven't climbed for a while (2-3 weeks) and I go to an indoor centre I'll have a terrible, terrible session. I'll fall off things, I'll pump out, I'll be unable to hold myself on starting holds. I used to get frustrated, but I have to remind myself: you've had a few weeks off, and you're going at it too fast, you're a bit rusty, your mind needs a chance to reset. I know now – I'm used to it, resigned to it – that I have to get that terrible session out of the way so that the next time I go I'll have a decent session (so long as I don't leave it a couple of weeks).
Keep asking questions, and keep going!
Post edited at 09:23