In reply to nufkin:
I think you are being over optimistic. Every day I commute in the car i see multiple examples of poor driving standards:
Using Mobile Phones
Blocking Yellow Box junctions
Forcing into traffic (rather than the more civilized filtering in turn)
Last minute lane changing to avoid queues (despite well signed lanes)
Agression from one driver or another
People sat in the wrong lane on dual carriageway
Tailgating
Most days I see:
Curbs being mounted as they can't possibly wait for the queue in front to move forward a foot
Jumping red lights
Larger vehciles bullying small vehicles (particularly Vans)
People completely ignoring blue light vehicles until they are right behind them
Cutting across to dual carriageway exits from the outside lane at the last minute
Undertaking
It's certainly not that everyone's standards have fallen, but certainly on my commute, these sort of actions have become more common in the last 10 years, and the frustration that these actions cause is clear to see.
I also see cyclists (and motorbikes) charge down gaps in between cars quite oblivious to the fact that the cars are swapping lanes (yes they should look, but as they don't notice my car they aren't going to see a bike), squeezing down the inside of lorries at junctions (suicidal).
When I commute by bike (which is once or twice a week at the moment) I take a different route down smaller roads, which are still quite conjested. Whilst most of the time people pass me reasonably safely, there is the odd one that squeezes me (generally though Its OK).
I see quite a lot of cyclists on this route, and despite the roads being perfectly fine to ride on and not fast (max speed limit is 40 and the road is slower) or busy 60% of the cyclists I see are on the pavements, often annoying pedestrians. And a significant number of cyclists seem intent on diving down the smallest gaps between cars, and can at times appear to be deliberatly annoying drivers.
Despite riding over 2000 miles this (rainy)summer I have only had 2 incidents of note on the bike:
1) while waiting at a red light (I always do) a car nudged my back wheel with his bumper. - It was accidental and at very slow speed, and didn't cause me any problem just a bit of a surprise - the driver was very apollegetic.
2) a pedestrian walked straight through a line of other pedestrians waiting for the pelican crossing to change straight into my path. fortunately I spotted she was about to do this and managed to slide to a stop only knocking into her gently (not enough to knock either of us over). She then started shouting and bawling at me until on of the other pedestrains at the crossing pointed out that there was a reason they were all standing there waiting to cross - the light was against them and there was traffic (me) coming.
I put down this lack of incidents to riding defensibly and courteously to other traffic (on 2 wheels or 4) and being visible rather than a cycling ninja.
Please don't read this as "I'm a perfect driver and cyclist and everyone else isn't" post, these are mere observations, and I'm sure others can make observations about my riding/driving.
The point I'm trying to make is that it's not drivers Vs cyclists on the roads, it's a free for all at teh moment, with to many people unwilling to delay their joureney by a few seconds for the sake of being courteous to others. I have no idea what to do about it apart from be courteous to others, hoping that this rubs off on them and gradually we all improve