In reply to MikeLell:
I never really mention to people that I climb, simply because to them I might as well say I like competitive bungy jumping. They thing it is all about being a thrill seeker, which is very far from what it means to me. I went to a party recently where everyone got a label, and he put 'mountaineer' on mine, and I really wasn't too keen on the reaction that it drew...
As to what I have gained from climbing, I think it is that thing where you look at a route from the bottom, and it looks completely impossible. But the first move looks ok, so you do that, then a bit more, then a bit more... at times, you really can't even work out how to do the next move, but you just can move one foot up a bit higher, which then in turn uncovers the next move....
and eventually you get to the end of the route! I sometimes look down a route that I have climbed cleanly and think - there is NO WAY that I would solo that, and yet, physically, I am perfectly capable of doing so!
Now, when I have any impossible seeming tasks in life, I don't worry too much about reaching the end point or having a grand overall plan for getting to the end. I just do the little bit that seems possible, and the solutions to the task reveal themselves as I go.