As a family we found ourselves needing a change of pace and location. While we only intended to move 'somewhere in Cumbria/Northumbria/ Borders/D&G, and most certainly not north of Edinburgh and Glasgow in a weeny village, the job offer came in from Loch Tay area... This was 14 years ago.
We've since moved to Dunblane area.
Reflections from me:
- the proximity of nature and access to adventures meant we had a lifestyle many would be envious of. Our kids had a delightful upbringing and spent much time in thier formative years climbing hills, paddling rivers and riding bikes in beautiful places. It's safe and welcoming. You're somewhat isolated from bigger things in the world. You learn to be resourceful and independent, yet also finding out what true community and support is. And waking up to three Munro's and a waterfall is something you never tire of - or being able to explore in detail the local hills and glens.
- the wonderful community is small, so you have to live 'up close and personal' with everyone in the community, and there's no avoiding of issues or conflict. Gossip is a powerful force. It's 50 miles round trip to any bigger shops, swimming pool, secondary school....On a wet Wednesday in November it feels like the edge of the world. Fuel for heating is electric or oil, and ferocious in cost. See also so many miles on rough roads in the car, with high running costs and fuel. Jobs are few, well paid jobs very unusual, many folk travel a lot to undertake work.
- our move to nearer a city has had few downsides. The Stirling to Perth valley, villages and towns has everything we didn't have in more remote areas. Yet we also have huge nature and places to explore on our doorstep, and within an hour we can be in 'proper' mountains. We can catch ferries to the Hebrides with an early start, we can be in Oban, Fort William, Aviemore and Inverness within a couple of hours. There's trains, buses and the end of the motorway network. The kids can now walk home with pals and head out to the cinema (etc) with them. I still pedal to (well paid and stable) work on a quiet backlane to Stirling University site. Yet this morning I also hopped on a train and will be in London mid-afternoon. I can still see the summit of Ben Vorlich and the Ochils from my garden. On balance, I'm struggling to see many downsides other than the cost of housing and the view of the hills compared to 'really rural'.
- another take, and sorry this is a bit political. Scotland is not perfect, but we do have marginally better services up here, a government with a vision of the future and some integrity in how they deliver that. There's a different feel generally to many areas of life, some of which is the Scottish humour and attitude, some is the aspirations of a nation and our leadera.
The move north was the best thing we've ever done as a family. We won't head South again...and you couldn't pay me enough to be back in the rat race of a city.