In reply to Jon Stewart:
> What I'm challenging is your perception that the TERFs are in general reasonable whereas "trans activists" are in general abusive. I've just showed you that at the level of Germaine Greer writing in a newspaper, the TERF view is utterly hateful and vile, and you've tried to excuse it as "marketing valid ideas".
I'm perfectly aware that trans activism covers everything from thoughtful philosophers through to the vilest of misogynistic abuse. (What is it about trans activism that gives it such an anti-woman extreme?)
Was the Greer quote above rude and dehumanising? Yes, it was. But the point she is making is that a transwoman is, at some point, a man in a dress, who has not had the experience of growing up female (remember how differently little girls are treated as compared to little boys), not a valid description? Unless of course you believe there are little pink brains and little blue brains which don't match their little pink or blue bodies, but this sounds to me a little retro. As I understand it, even the trans charity Mermaids has rowed back on the "mismatched brains and bodies" view.
I do realise that at this point you believe I'm some sort of satanic monster full of hate, even though I actually want trans people to live happy and fulfilled lives, but I'll press on.
If I undestand Greer and other feminist writers on this, then patriarchy is based on women having worse life chances due to their physical body - and given that men and women's earnings only start to diverge after parenthood, plus the whole sport issue, then there is good grounds for arguing this, in my view. If that's the case then surely the physical aspect of being male or female is perhaps more important than what your feelings about your gender are? After all, we know feelings about gender are mutable, which is exactly the taboo point JK Rowling was making in her sensitive essay. Are we allowed mutable feelings about in the trans activism world? I understand your sensitivity to "it's anti-gay therapy all over again", but given the many pressures on teenage girls, isn't a desire not to be a girl one possible response that may be passing and not inate? Why is discussing this such a threat?
So yes, valid ideas worth exploring, written in vile prose. What's the valid idea behind "suck my lady dick" or "TERFs need to be raped"? What's the valid idea behind men ruining women's careers because they dare to have an opinion that threatens those men?
> Publicly promoting a narrative that trans women are a danger to other women (because they are creepy men in dresses who just want to gain access to women-only spaces so they can commit abuse) is not nice, and this is the core of the TERF position. I'm trying to get you to see that the TERF position isn't all sweetness and love.
This is the typical misreading of the position many UK feminists take, as I understand it. It's not that trans women are a danger, it's that without proper safeguards predatory males can pass as trans women to commit abuse.
According to this BBC article, 21% of trans prisoners are convicted rapists:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-42221629
You'll note I kept the figure to rapists rather than all sex offenders, which is higher. How many of those are pretending to be trans to gain access to women? We don't know. But protecting vulnerable women in prison seems a good idea to me, and if it comes across as "not nice", well I can live with that.
I rather enjoyed this article: https://sarahditum.com/2018/09/10/six-years-in-the-gender-wars/
You'll hate it, of course, given Ms Ditum argues that: "Trans activism is anti-feminist in practice and allied to the harassment of individual women."
In another part of the essay she writes:
"But when I say “woman”, I mean “female person”. The experience of being a female person is different to the experience of being a male person who identifies as female, and that distinction is politically important.
"Transwomen are transwomen (to quote Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie), and do not benefit from being subsumed in the category women: access to sex reassignment surgery, the effect of HRT on a male body, the problems of transitioning in a society hostile to gender non-conformity are all specific to transwomen. However, sexism being what it is, the practical consequence of treating transwomen as women is that the male interest is placed first. The female right to self-organise comes after the male right to be treated as a woman."
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