In reply to Toerag: window should line through on the outer cavity, as far forward as possible to minimise external redecoration. Certainly cavity should not be exposed, this will lead to water ingress, even if the cill covers the bottom. Head and reveal exposed.
Reference the internal redecoration; it is reasonable to expect the window fitter to use 75mm trim to cover the cavity at the head, jambs and cill. You'd be responsible for additional making good, but I'd be alarmed if the fitter made a lot of mess.
I'd also check what fixings he's used and at what centres. Sometimes it's necessary to use a strap back to fix into the internal cavity - for a variety of reasons - so fixing through the frame isn't always necessary.
Should use expanding foam if there are any gaps greater than 15-20mm rather than just silicone.
Personally I wouldn't except the level of workmanship from what you've described, all basic stuff. I'd be shocked to find a tradesman carrying out work to that standard. i.e. alarm bells