In reply to MarkM: Something worth bearing in mind - all the weddings I have been to which have had dance floor and DJ (and that includes all the weddings I did when I worked in a function room) have had a set sequence of events.
- first few songs strike up and everyone has a dance
- people seem to get bored of dancing pretty quickly and retreat to the bar
- bride's mates desperately try to keep the dance floor busy so that the bride can boogie the night away but don't necessarily enjoy the dancing themselves
- most over the age of 25 leave after about one hour because they can't hear themselves think
- those who remain, stand around miserably because they don't want to dance and can't strike up conversation because the music is too loud
Just a thought.