In reply to ericinbristol:
On a long multi pitch in the mist, with rain starting to fall.
"It goes that way" (second who never leads)
"No , it goes this way according to the guidebook" (me)
"I think you should go that way, it's easier"
"No it's not, it leads to a dead end"
"I still think"
"Look, do you want to lead it..."
"No"
"Then shut up.."