In reply to rich in wales:
understand:
there is wet and cold, wet and un-cold, and frozen.
things get get wet - period. where they go from just wet is a matter of application. wet and warm is what you aim for. wet and cold and frozen are both unnecessary.
think of it as serial process, beginning by chucking the whole lot in your bag with you is the key, or into the space between your bag and a bivvy bag if its really sopping.
as said above, chuck your dry(est) layers on to sleep and steam the wet layers with your body heat. keep in mind that sleeping in gortex/conduit/event etc stuff keeps you clammy. if you can, sleep in as breathable textiles as possible and just have the gortex etc stuff around you. also with down - it dries/warms better if you layer it on top rather than wear it and compact it down.
then in the morning continue the process by getting into your wet-and-dry stuff and keeping it warm with body heat generated by exercise.
unless youre mad, you will have at least 2 sets of gloves, so keep whatever youre not wearing in an inside pocket.
consider too the timing of when you put your wet-but-warm stuff back on in the morning.
i like to do it after packing everything else so i can head out and start moving to keep my body temp up. as little time in clammy clothes the better.
warming stuff over stoves is asking for a world of problems - from wasted fuel to fumes from burnt gortex.