In reply to Big Ger:
> No they haven't, please quote where they have if you believe so.
Rom’s entire set of posts are just one example of someone trying to show you the real, human effects of the topic discussed. If you can’t see that, there’s something wrong.
> it took Rom posting some personal issues to take the debate out of the abstract, and into the personal. When debating the abstract we do not need to take into account "feelings".
This corroborates my point perfectly, and goes to the heart of the discomfort many people experience with your bizarre online persona. When discussing issues such as this, you could try to understand that there are real ‘feelings’ involved. It’s not abstract for everyone.
Your camper van quote, and the subsequent point you make above, illustrate the shallowness of your engagement with the emotional reality of the subject. In this issue, real families are being unnecessarily broken up, lives are being changed irrevocably. ‘Feelings’ are involved.
> The genuine offer I made, was not platitudinous, it was a gentlemanly thing to do.
You genuinely offered to get the f*ck out of the debate when it got real. You genuinely uttered meaningless platitudes afterward.
> If Rom wishes to continue the debate on whether the UK Govt is "persecuting his wife", I'm happy to go ahead.
You yourself provided an accepted definition of the term ‘persecution’: it absolutely applied to the situation he described. You failed to acknowledge that, and in your arrogance chose to refute his considered and reasonable assessment of his own situation.
> Your inability to debate, ruining of threads by over-emotionalising and personalisng, not to mention your off topic and whinging personal attacks, shows you up as an empty vessel.
Ad-hom. I recommend you take some instruction in critical thinking – it will help you to understand the flaws in the way you construct your arguments:
> It's not a logical fallacy, it's called "debate". One person makes a point, another person disputes it. You should try it sometime, instead of whining on and on about how you don't like what I say.
No. It’s not a method of debate. It’s a method of deflecting the argument. You might think you’re winning, but you’re simply failing to engage with the points made.
> (Not that you have made any on topic to debate.)
I’ve taken issue with your taunting posts on the topic, and your inability to engage with its emotional reality. As you know. Please stop trying to deflect. If you’re going to contribute by tossing thoughtless, inflammatory comments into the debate, then exit when you’re called into reality, you can expect to take some flak.
In reply to Wintertree:
> This thread could easily have turned into a 'classic' debate about whether something was bureaucratic incompetence/indifference or government persecution.
Quite probably a mixture of both things, really. But it’s happening, and it’s undeniably unfair. Even if it is the former, it points to the onset of a passive attitude toward equality and human rights. This is only marginally less troubling than the assertion of active persecution (presumably to appease a vocal right-wing minority, how apposite).
> Also, just because someone has a view different to yours - or the majority view - it doesn't mean that they are trolling. Once you start labelling those you disagree with "trolls" you become part of the problem,
It wasn’t me who originally called him out for this. But yes, what he was doing on the thread absolutely fits one accepted definition of trolling:
‘A person who makes a deliberately offensive or provocative online post.’
Around the contributions Big Ger was making to the debate, were a series of snide, thoughtless, and combative comments. Such as:
> your self dislike.
> existential futility
> whimsical pipe dream
Not offensive? Not provocative? In what way did these silly little comments add to the debate? The irony being that without these unpleasant interjections, Mr Ger’s arguments would in the main be strong, reasonable and considered. The presence of such comments however does offer a clear insight into his motivations and mindset.
Luke