In reply to Rob Exile Ward:
My daughter is small for her age and has used a sit-harness since she was eight, with no chest harness nor any fear of it not being safe.
If it was me, I'd a least be taking the lad into a shop to try some out. Although, to be fair, you may be able to achieve a similar level of confidence simply by tying a belt (or rope?) snugly around his waist and then seeing whether it's possible to slide it down past his hips.